Why are there so many of us who have a hard time accepting a
compliment? Someone says “You sure look
nice today”, and all we can say is “ah… this old thing?” Or someone compliments
you on a job well done and the first thing out of your mouth is what you could
have done to do it even better. I am one
of these people.
I was recently given
a different perspective of a compliment.
A compliment can be seen as a gift.
It may not be wrapped in a box with a big red ribbon on it, but it is
something given to someone that is meant to encourage and let a person know
that what or how they have done
something is noticed, appreciated and makes a difference for someone. We wouldn’t hand back a brightly wrapped gift
why can’t we accept a ‘gift’ worth so much more?
I think it is important to compliment, whether to our children,
spouse, co- workers etc. Compliments
have a power to push and encourage people to keep trying or to reach even
further. At the same time I think it is
just as important to be a good receiver of compliments. How we receive says a lot about us and has
ability to show the difference a compliment can make.
Looking at compliments now as ‘gifts’ has made me realize
that how I respond to them is just as important as giving them.
Alana Regier
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