Monday 12 May 2014

Tough Week


This past week was a hard one.  The life of a loved teacher of our youngest son was taken.  The circumstances were ugly; something that you see on the news but never believe could happen close to you or in your own community.  How does a person explain to an 11 year old why a tragedy like this happens when you can’t wrap your own mind around it as an adult? 

Saturday, as I sat at her Celebration of Life service, I was touched by not only how many people were there, but how many people’s lives she had touched in a multitude of ways.  As I listened to the special messages written with so much love for each of her children, her parents and her siblings, I was overwhelmed with the thought that if something was to happen to me unexpectedly, would those dear to my heart know what they meant to me? 

Life is busy.  We all have longer lists than we do time.  But do we prioritize according to what is really important?  This young lady was open and honest.   She stood up for what she believed.  She was passionate about things she enjoyed and thought important.  She let those around her know what they meant to her. 

Live with no regrets.  Take the time to play with your kids, tell those around you that you love them, play hookie from work to spend a day with your spouse, use the good dishes… LIVE!

Live a life that makes a difference, a life that matters, and a life that will be missed when it’s gone J

Alana Regier


 

Tuesday 6 May 2014

Distracted


We learn from our first day of class the importance of bowing in and out, the significance of crossing that threshold and leaving the outside stuff out and giving all our respect, attention and focus to our instructors and to our time on the mats.  Unfortunately life can cause distractions for us and I am very guilty.  Last night at the Advanced Black Dragons class I found myself in a position where I didn’t leave all the ‘stuff’ outside.  I was distracted and mentally not where I should have been and I apologize to my fellow instructors as well as the students.  I know as well as anyone the value of that time and should probably been on the bench rather than the mats. 

Alana Regier